What I Would Tell My Child if I Could Only Say One ThingPosted: December 9, 2011 | |
My last message to my child would be (and you never know when this might happen!): Do everything you want to do – and nothing you don’t.”
I’m digressing to share an anecdote. Eleanor was a loving daughter. When her mother died, she decided to read aloud at the funeral her mother’s last words to her. And so she took out a manuscript titled: “Mother’s Last Words, in 206 verses”. 🙂 🙂
In the spirit (but only the spirit!) of the above anecdote, I would like to elaborate on my own ‘last words’. I would tell my daughter:
- Don’t worry about whether the thing you want to do is the ‘right’ thing to do or not. If you want to do it, go ahead and do it. Don’t worry about what people will say. This is your life, not other people’s. Do what you want.
- Love yourself best – nobody else but yourself. Everyone else comes second – or third – or tenth – or isn’t on the list… 🙂
- Life is an adventure. Things not working out the way you’d like them to is part of the adventure. If everything in life were how we’d like it to be, human beings would be suicidal – there would be no impetus to do anything. It would be b-o-r-i-n-g.
- You will feel hurt – by people and circumstances. It’s part of the adventure. People don’t always mean to hurt you. Move on.
- Bless you! Have a great life! 🙂
I’m still waiting to hear what you would tell your child…
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